My new morning routine musings

 Thursday May 2nd

I have a new routine now, wake up early with a shock, rush downstairs to make tea, there is no kettle in this beautiful house that we are staying in, but a small pot works just fine. Ive been drinking assam all week (thanks Gwen). Then I look out the window to the view of long island sound and fisher's island and the soft colours and realize that this is just another project to manage and get through, new hurdles and challenges that life is barreling at my family.

Then its a quick catch-up on correspondences, notes for the day, what perceived essential item do I think that I might find at the house today? To quickly realize that I don't actually need that item. Each day we find a treasure, something that we've forgotten about. Thirty years in one house where the girls grew up end up containing so much stuff and oh so many memories.

Then its of to Mystic market (thank you SuzyQ) for a large earl grey tea, Leo makes me an egg and cheese bagel with spinach and hot sauce and together with a large thermos filled with water (thanks Ellen), I'm fueled for the day. 

The days are getting less wrenching, its almost two weeks since the fire........


Later I'll share the non-asbestos potentially containing asbestos vermiculite popcorn ceiling that is turning into a real gut punch as half of the upstairs remains sealed off oh and the felting of a sweater and waistcoat by the cleaners....

But tonight I'll roast a chicken, Gwen and Nadia will come over, we'll go for a walk and life will feel a little "normal"


okay Mystic market beckons :-)

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  1. TrishMay 3, 2024 at 1:48 PM

    Surrounded by family and friends that is what is truly irreplaceable.

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